About Rachel Oates

Youtuber, Poet, Photographer and Dog-Mum

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Hey everyone! If you’re here, most of you probably know me from Youtube but if you don’t, hi!

I’ve been making Youtuber videos seriously since around 2017 on various topics. My main goals are to educate, entertain and empower all my viewers and encourage them to have to confidence and knowledge to form their own opinions, make their own decisions and really take control of their lives.

I usually make long-form and in-depth book reviews and educational content but I also enjoy playing around with other video formats, topics and anything that’s a bit of fun!

I started out mostly making atheism-related content but I’m not an anti-theist; I completely respect everyone’s right to believe whatever they want, even if it’s not for me. Instead, I’ll often debunk bad science from creationists or attempt to offer alternative perspectives to harmful life advice from creators like Girl Defined, Paul & Morgan, and Michael and Debi Pearl, amongst others.

Today I also focus on reviewing all kinds of books and I’m particularly passionate about poetry, but I also enjoy talking about science, history, makeup, animals and a little of everything!

I’m not the biggest fan of being defined by labels but I happily call myself a liberal feminist and outspoken ally to the LGBT+ community.

I also care deeply about raising awareness of and reducing stigma around mental health issues - I’m learning to be more open about my own struggles with depression, anxiety and self-harm and how I’m continually working to overcome these.

A Little Background…

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As of August 2024, I’m currently 31 and living in Leeds, West Yorkshire.

I grew up in South Yorkshire in a small market town called Penistone and moved away at 18 to go to Warwick University.

Since then, I’ve lived in Leamington Spa, Coventry, Oxford, Brighton and London.

Kyra The Staffy

If you’ve seen any of my videos you’ve probably seen (or heard!) my beautiful dog, Kyra. She’s an 11 year old Staffordshire Bull Terrier who I adopted from Battersea Dogs and Cats Home in April 2018. She’s my best friend and my whole world.

I’m incredibly passionate about supporting Battersea and all animal shelters and I will always encourage people to #AdoptDontShop for their new bestie!

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Before starting Youtube, I worked in Digital B2C Marketing but I’ve had a whole range of jobs over the years - I’ve worked in shops, bars, photo-printing labs, for online book retailers, websites like The Student Room, and done freelance photography, graphic design and web design. A bit of everything!

My first paying job was at 14 in a pharmacy but I’ve also done volunteer work in charity shops and animal shelters.

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Let Me Introduce My Best Friend…

Since I adopted her 4 years ago, me and Kyra have been basically inseparable - it’s just what happens when you live together and work from home and it’s just the two of you. Of course, there have been times when I’ve had to go away for work or I’ve been able to take a little holiday but, honestly, you don’t spend as much time together as we have without forming a really special, strong bond.

She’s easily the best behaved dog I’ve ever known, she’s completely in tune with my emotions, she makes me smile and laugh like no one else and she’s always always always got my back.

We’re a little package. A team. Besties.

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Kyra’s Favourite Things

Birthday: 2nd March 2013

Adoption Anniversary: 11th April

Favourite Food: Beef and CHEESE

Favourite Snack: DentaStix Before Bed

Favourite Toy: BALL

You’ll Often Find Me: Napping In The Sun

Strangest Obsession: Bubbles!

Beach or Forest?: BOTH

I Sleep…: In Mum’s Bed. On Her Pillow. Sometimes She Is My Pillow.

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Education & Background

I grew up in a small market town in South Yorkshire called Penistone. That’s small-me in that photograph! Look how weird I was…

I went to secondary school (11 – 16) and sixth form (16 – 18) at Penistone Grammar School (which is not half as fancy as it sounds, and definitely isn’t an actual grammar school). For my A Levels I studied English Literature, Media Studies, Sociology, Biology and, the mandatory, General Studies.

In 2011, I moved away to live near Coventry and studied at the University of Warwick. I studied a first year of Biomedical Science with the intention to specialise in neurology, but then realised that’s not what I wanted to do with my life. That first year I got to study a great range of topics including genetics, microbiology, virology, biochemistry and physiology, to name a few.

So, I switched course to BSc Management with a focus on Marketing, however I also took modules in neuroscience, psychology & consumer behaviour, economics (not my strongest subject!), accounting & finance, morality and ethics in business, and a really wide range of different topics. Honestly, it was a fantastic course that really let me explore a huge variety of topics.

During this time I also took a year out to work as the head of marketing for an online book retailer. I returned to Warwick to complete the final year of my degree and graduated with a 2:1 in 2016.

Work

Youtube’s a relatively new part of my life. I never really expected my channel to take off in anyway – I didn’t think anyone would care all that much about anything I had to say but you guys proved me wrong.

My first proper paying job (not just the volunteer stuff I did before then) was working in a local pharmacy and photo printing lab in Penistone when I was 14. I stayed there for 4 years, also working a second cashier job while I was at sixth form, until I moved away to uni in 2011.

I did a whole bunch of jobs during my time at uni: I did some freelance photography work, worked in Leamington Spa’s grottiest bar, worked in a jewellery shop, and interned at The Student Room, to name a few.

In 2014, I took a break from my degree and moved to Oxford to take a head of marketing role for an online book retailer. It was the kind of job that taught me a hell of a lot about marketing but I also just learnt a lot from the whole experience. I moved to a completely new area and knew no one, lived by myself without housemates for the first time (which I loved!), struggled on the tightest budget I’ve ever been on and generally had a pretty tough time. 18 months later when I decided to go back to uni and finish my degree, I felt tougher and more confident than I ever had.

After I moved to London in 2016, I got a marketing job straight away but just didn’t feel like the small company I was working for was right for me so on a bit of a whim… I quit. I am still so grateful that I was in a position at the time where I could do that, not everyone gets that kind of choice, I know past and present-me wouldn’t be able to, so I was very lucky at the time. I decided I wanted to work for myself so did a bit of freelance work doing digital marketing, web design, graphic design, a bit of photography. Eventually I started blogging for fun, then started making a few Youtube videos here and there.

Mostly they were videos just for myself at first but as I started talking about more topics, people started to watch…

 
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Youtube

Making Youtube videos has been an incredible, terrifying, fun, draining [add almost any other adjective you can think of in here!) experience which has continually pushed me to grow and be a better person.

I’ve not always made the right choices and there have been plenty of mistakes along the way but I’m continuing to learn and grown as a person and try to create better and better content all the time.

As I’ve said before, I usually make long-form and in-depth book reviews and educational content but sometimes, I need a little bit of a break and just want to make a short video for fun - usually something to do with makeup or art or my dog! I know these videos don’t get the same views as anything else but it’s not about that, it’s about giving myself time to just create something for fun and get a little creative. Some of the videos I’m most proud of or that I’ve worked the hardest one are one without many views and that’s ok. Numbers aren’t everything.

Youtube has made me question myself more than anything else in my life, but it’s also made me stronger in many ways and more considerate of other people’s feelings and lifestyles. My views and understanding are constantly evolving.

Criticism is tough to hear sometimes and sometimes it makes me sad, especially when I’m criticised for something I never intended but honestly, it has helped me grow as a person. You don’t always see the stuff that goes on behind the scenes and I don’t make a big deal or any public declarations about ‘I’m changing my mind about X’ because that just feels a bit performative and unnatural to me, but I always take people’s criticisms to heart and try and use them to grow as a person. I will always incorporate the things I’ve learnt into my new content whether this is by being more inclusive in my language, or making sure I mention points I might have missed out before, or just sharing a completely new viewpoint.

I can promise you, it is never my intention to make anyone feel left out or belittled or anything, so if I am messing up and saying the wrong thing - just let me know so I can fix it. I’m human and I’m fallible and sometimes I mess up: I don’t think things through or don’t understand how some things may be interpreted by other people, sometimes I mess up by misinterpreting others and their tone. These things happen but there’s never any malice behind them and I’m willing to work on them.